The guy I had a thing with for four months just ended it last week. He was the first person I hooked up with and I am so attached to him, emotionally. He knew how special it was to me and he just told me he doesn’t feel the same about me as he did before and that he wants me to move on when he promised he wouldn’t leave me. I do not know how to handle this, I miss him so much and I need him/want him back so bad. He made me so happy and now I feel so alone. Why would he do this to me? I don’t think I did anything wrong…actually I know I didn’t. I tried calling him and I started crying and told him how much I care about him and want him back and he told me to stop because sensitive people are his pet peeve and said goodnight. Why doesn’t he care about my feelings? I was nothing bu nice to him and he knows I still like him. I am 16 and he is 17 by the way. Help 
Go search for guys who won’t act like tht.
NAT | Nov 27, 2009
As harsh as it sounds, it was your fault as well for letting him ‘use’ you.
Victor | Nov 27, 2009
Don’t call him and whine and cry to him anymore about how much you love,miss or want him back. That is a BIG TURNOFF to guys when they are the ones who don’t want to be with you anymore. Just stop. Don’t call him dont even text him or send him a message anymore. You have to actlike you could are less about him and moved on with your life. This will make him suprised and question about leaving you in the first place. And if you want to get over him you have to do what I told you up there the first step is to lose all contact with him.
N.L | Nov 27, 2009
the easy way to get over him is to just say that there are better out there. you just accidently got a bad one.I got used a couple times, once i met a sweet boy, one year younger then me, and i later found out he only went out with me to say he has an older girl…he proboly just wanted a girlfriend, and you were the unlucky one he picked. because he did that to you, you should not even think of him. forget him. another story is my sisters. a guy proposed to her, and when she said no, he brokme up with her and said that he only did that to get in bed with her..she just forgot him,, and ignored his text of sorrys. FORGET ABOUT HIM, HE IS NOT WORTH IT!
Jessica | Nov 27, 2009
I really don’t know, but I feel so badly for you. Alright I got this answer from a website, so I’ll translate it for you. Okay, the first thing is give yourself some time to mourn (this might let go of your sadness). Second thing is you should do is hang with your friends(they love you and will support you). Third thing is find a new hobby (this will begin the process of forgetting him). Do something which he (whatever that is going to the movies, shopping, etc.). If you’re religious, pray for guidance. I got the source right here. I hope it helps. You can also email me anytime if you want. I forgot to say that I added some of my advice.
Townshend is God | Nov 27, 2009
